It Happens Sometimes

Are you the greatest? Are you the richest? Anyway there are times you will face setbacks. You will stumble and fall. There is nothing you can do about it. There is something in your heart that says, "I failed and I lost." People are celebrating, cheering your name at the top of their lungs but there is something inside you crying. When this happens you are not unlucky, similar people had gone through this. You simply get what you really don't want but what people close to you wants. This is life. If you don't like this you better do something about it.

One of the greatest obstacles is that of your likes against your parents. Sometimes, parents want something from you. In the corner of your heart you know thyself, a chill that says you are on your way to disaster. When your parents are stronger, you end up in that sad world. A classic example is a parent who wants their child to become a doctor or an engineer where the child loves to be a musician or a sportsman. If you are a chess player definitely there is a high possibility that your parents already told you so. I, for one falls under this web and my heart is burning right now. If I am extremely talented and very flexible, I can do things that pleases my parents or friends at the same time do something my heart yearns but when you are the type where things don't come easy, where every moment of glory so insignificant is due to years and years of toil and sacrifices, you establish certain connection and love for the things you do. Parents don't get this. Some parents think their genes are superior where in fact it is not. Excuse me for this. I believe that all men are equal.

When you are down, you feel weak and let all sorts of negative thoughts enter your mind. Even your past success is erased as waking up erased our night's dreams. This is the moment when it's crucial to remember your sacrifices, the moment where you spent sleepless nights, moments where you are humiliated. You did all these sacs not to give up right! Stand up, close your fist, look for something you can punch, punch as hard as you can. A little injury is quite acceptable during these crucial moments. Give a rest, focus and start again with renewed vigour. Now you will see a stronger version of yourself but please avoid giving yourself a new name. You still need that old name.

As new day comes, prepare yourself for there is still a lot of challenge ahead.